The V-Spot: My Boyfriend is … Tied Up
Hi Yana, I’ve been dating a new guy for about four months. He’s honest and makes time for me. He’s also really exciting, and after [...]
The V-Spot: I’m Hesitant to Receive Touch
Hey there! This is a question but also a need for some clarity and reassurance. I’m a 20-something bi female living in Portland, Oregon. I [...]
The V-Spot: My BF’s Back Pain Killed Our Sex Life
Hi Yana! I’ve been with my partner for a year. He’s in his mid-30s and has some chronic back pain from a sports accident that [...]
V-Spot: I’m Feeld-ing Threesomes
Dear Yana, In my post-big-breakup dating life, I’ve decided to start using Feeld [a dating app that’s basically Tinder for couples and singles seeking to [...]
The V-Spot: How Do I Find Someone Who’s Got Their Shit Together?
Hi Yana, I’m no longer satisfied with the type of love I attract. After my most recent heartbreak, and having to face the thought of [...]
The V-Spot: My Lover and My Bestie Are Dating
Hi there! I’m an early 30s, cis, brown, queer non-monogamous woman. My question is about a situation I find myself in with a lover and [...]
AdvoChat Podcast: The Lifestyle of a Sex Columnist
Last week, I chatted with my editors at the Valley Advocate about what it's like to be a small-town sex columnist. Watch & listen with [...]
The V-Spot: Friends with Bad Benefits
Hi Yana, I have a conundrum! I recently started going on dates with a friend of a friend, and it wasn’t until our third date [...]
The V-Spot: How Do I Disclose an STI?
Hi Yana, I recently found out after my 21-year pap smear that I carry HPV (human papillomavirus). It’s incredibly annoying that even though I’ve been [...]
The Many Forms of Relationships // a lil workshop write-up
The Many Forms of Relationships by Angelique Inchierca This month, I went to Keene State to present my workshop Polyamory and Open Relationships and student newspaper [...]