Practical Skills for Open Relationships2020-06-26T15:15:16+00:00

practical skills for open relationships

Practical Skills for Open Relationships

All relationships take work.

But sometimes non-monogamous relationships specifically can require us to be especially attentive to communication, self-awareness, and potentially sticky subjects like jealousy, boundaries, and asking for what we want & need. To help with these efforts, this workshop presents essential skills to successfully navigating your non-monogamous relationships including:

  • identifying root feelings to jealousy
  • how to manage & cope with jealousy
  • how to respond to your jealous partners
  • effective emotional communication
  • setting healthy boundaries & making needs requests rather than enacting control
  • creating gradual relationship agreements that work for you & your partner/s
  • relational rupture repair
  • and therapeutic interventions & theories that’ve proven helpful to my non-monogamous clients in my work as a therapist 

This workshop will be part lecture, part discussion, and part interactive practice with communication skills, boundary-setting, and making effective requests of our partners.

Participants of the workshop will get access to online resources including helpful worksheets & exercises to do by yourself and/or with your partners as well as article, book, and other resource recommendations for non-monogamous folks.

Please note that this workshop is *not* a Non-Monogamy 101 class

and assumes a basic level of understanding of non-monogamous relationships including why folks might be drawn to them, the potential challenges, and what differentiates consensual non-monogamy from unethical relational behavior. Topics in this workshop will benefit non-monogamous relationships from brand new to well-worn, and concepts taught can be easily applied to monogamous and kinky relationships as well (we’ll just be focused on non-monogamous contexts in the workshop). Please bring a pen and something to take notes on!

why learn from Yana?

Yana Tallon-Hicks is a relationships therapist as well as a consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world.

Yana has been practicing both monogamy & non-monogamy in her personal relationships for over a decade and believes that all styles of relationships on this spectrum are valid & hard work! 

In her private therapy practice she works primarily with LGBTQ+, kinky, and non-monogamous clients with a focus on sex & sexuality topics, non-monogamous relationship structures, and healthy relationship repair.

She has been working as an independent sex educator for ten years and writing sex & relationship advice for nine. Her workshops about sexual pleasure, communication & consent are taught at colleges, high schools, and sex toy shops all over New England. She has delivered guest lectures, keynote speeches, and even a TEDxTalk in Vienna, Austria about her work.

Read more about Yana & her work here, where you can also read testimonials about her work, read her sex advice column, follow her on Instagram & Twitter, and watch her TEDxTalk: Is the Porn Brain Our New Sex Educator?.