Clopen Relationships: Love Advice from a Polyamorous Monogamist
I’m in an open relationship. I’m certainly not the only person in a non-monogamous relationship these days; my open status doesn’t score me nearly as [...]
How Can I Be Poly, With a Heart?
Hi Yana, I’m in my early 30s and have been polyamorous for a couple of years. Not long ago my wife of 13 years and [...]
Clopen Relationships: Love Advice from a Polyamorous Monogamist
I’m in an open relationship. I’m certainly not the only person in a non-monogamous relationship these days; my open status doesn’t score me nearly as many [...]
My BF is Pushing for Polyamory
>> Learn more at my UPCOMING WORKSHOP! << Polyamory & Open Relationships: Designing & Sustaining // February 18th // $15 // Easthampton, Ma Hi Yana, [...]
Can I Ask My GF to Stop Using Her Vibrator?
Hi Yana, With previous girlfriends it’s been easier over time to bring them to orgasm as I get to know their preferences and bodies, however [...]
New Mom Needs to Get Some
Hey Yana, Recently I listened to Dan Savage talk on the podcast “The Longest Shortest Time” about sex and parenting. The question of how to [...]
My GF Won’t Let Me Butter Her Toast
Dear Yana, In your recent columns you’ve mentioned the need for sex partners to have a supply of artificial lubrication at the ready. With regard [...]
Your College Sexual Orientation
Welcome back students! As you organize your hipster-ironic Lisa Frank folders, and passively aggressively stake your dormroom territory, I’ve got just one more checklist for [...]
My Married Sex Life, For Better or Worse
https://youtu.be/hDVMSZrAcc4 Hi Yana, I’ve been with my husband for many years, and our sex life has never been ideal. We never seem to be [...]
Masturbation Relations
Dear Yana, Is it normal for my husband to jerk off four times in a day? And then not want me? — XO Dear XO, [...]