practical skills for open relationships
Practical Skills for Open Relationships
All relationships take work.
But sometimes non-monogamous relationships specifically can require us to be especially attentive to communication, self-awareness, and potentially sticky subjects like jealousy, boundaries, and asking for what we want & need. To help with these efforts, this workshop presents essential skills to successfully navigating your non-monogamous relationships including:
- identifying root feelings to jealousy
- how to manage & cope with jealousy
- how to respond to your jealous partners
- effective emotional communication
- setting healthy boundaries & making needs requests rather than enacting control
- creating gradual relationship agreements that work for you & your partner/s
- relational rupture repair
- and therapeutic interventions & theories that’ve proven helpful to my non-monogamous clients in my work as a therapist
This workshop will be part lecture, part discussion, and part interactive practice with communication skills, boundary-setting, and making effective requests of our partners.
Participants of the workshop will get access to online resources including helpful worksheets & exercises to do by yourself and/or with your partners as well as article, book, and other resource recommendations for non-monogamous folks.
Please note that this workshop is *not* a Non-Monogamy 101 class
and assumes a basic level of understanding of non-monogamous relationships including why folks might be drawn to them, the potential challenges, and what differentiates consensual non-monogamy from unethical relational behavior. Topics in this workshop will benefit non-monogamous relationships from brand new to well-worn, and concepts taught can be easily applied to monogamous and kinky relationships as well (we’ll just be focused on non-monogamous contexts in the workshop). Please bring a pen and something to take notes on!
why learn from Yana?
Yana Tallon-Hicks is a relationships therapist as well as a consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world.
Yana has been practicing both monogamy & non-monogamy in her personal relationships for over a decade and believes that all styles of relationships on this spectrum are valid & hard work!
In her private therapy practice she works primarily with LGBTQ+, kinky, and non-monogamous clients with a focus on sex & sexuality topics, non-monogamous relationship structures, and healthy relationship repair.
She has been working as an independent sex educator for ten years and writing sex & relationship advice for nine. Her workshops about sexual pleasure, communication & consent are taught at colleges, high schools, and sex toy shops all over New England. She has delivered guest lectures, keynote speeches, and even a TEDxTalk in Vienna, Austria about her work.
Read more about Yana & her work here, where you can also read testimonials about her work, read her sex advice column, follow her on Instagram & Twitter, and watch her TEDxTalk: Is the Porn Brain Our New Sex Educator?.