Should I Date Someone I’m Not Attracted To?
Dear Yana, I met a girl on a dating app. It was sort of an accidental swipe, but we started chatting and met up. She [...]
How to Be Curvy and Confident
Hi Yana! I’m a chubby cis-woman in my late 20s. I lately worked through struggling with my body image and relationship to food while healing [...]
How Do I Ask Him to Rim?
Hi Yana, I’ve been with my husband for a long time and there’s one thing in the bed we did kind of once that I’d [...]
Does That Guy Ask Everyone Out?? & How Do I Poly?
Hi Yana, Where is the line between “If you like someone, ask them out!” and “Oh, that guy asks everyone out”??? — Master Dater From [...]
Should I Dump My Triad?
Hi Yana, I’m a bisexual woman and I’m the third wheel to a married bisexual male couple. We’ve been dating for about a year-and-a-half and [...]
Am I Gay/Queer Because of Sexual Trauma?
Editor’s Note: This column addresses rape, childhood sexual abuse, PTSD, and sexual orientation as a symptom of trauma. I’m in my late teens and have [...]
How Do I Introduce My Girlfriend To Polyamory?
Hi Yana, I recently began a polyamorous relationship with my girlfriend. We dated previously, but things didn’t work out due to extenuating circumstances, but we [...]
My Sex Drive’s Back But My BF’s Isn’t
Writer’s note: This column mentions depression and suicidality. Dear Yana, When me and my BF first got together about a year and a half ago, [...]
Am I Queer? Or a Fraud?
Hi Yana, Over the past year, I’ve thought a lot about my sexuality. Recently, I came across the term “heteroflexible” and immediately, I felt like [...]
Pee or ‘squirt’? Understanding vaginal ejaculation
Hi Yana, I started masturbating when I was in high school and there would be times where something would feel good, but then I would [...]