Help! I Think My Orgasms Are Broken!
Hi Yana! I’ve had a sexual concern for the longest time: I have trouble feeling orgasm during sex and masturbation. At first I thought it [...]
My GF Won’t Let Me Butter Her Toast
Dear Yana, In your recent columns you’ve mentioned the need for sex partners to have a supply of artificial lubrication at the ready. With regard [...]
Your College Sexual Orientation
Welcome back students! As you organize your hipster-ironic Lisa Frank folders, and passively aggressively stake your dormroom territory, I’ve got just one more checklist for [...]
Gimme That Grass-Fed Porn
Hi Yana, My wife and I have previously been pretty conservative when it comes to sex and not super-adventurous. Recently we realized our marriage would [...]
The V-Spot: Unplug to Buttplug
Hi Yana! My partner and I both really like butt plugs. We have the “Little Flirt” [a small, silicone butt plug made by Tantus] that [...]
5 Hours to a Blissful Partnership
Now that marriage equality has been won (!!), lesbian and queer couples are poised to pay attention to marital therapy’s age-old research which, was previously [...]
My Married Sex Life, For Better or Worse
https://youtu.be/hDVMSZrAcc4 Hi Yana, I’ve been with my husband for many years, and our sex life has never been ideal. We never seem to be [...]
Bi-curious at Bedtime
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVScqAd_oVs Dear Yana, While I don’t think labeling one’s sexuality is always necessary, I’ve always considered myself a heterosexual woman. I’ve been attracted to [...]
Don’t Wanna Be Straight Forever: My Bisexual Marriage Equality Freakout
The day national marriage equality passed I sobbed into my boyfriend’s shoulder in bed for half an hour. My shoulders heaved and my dog looked [...]
Hey baby, what’s your number?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLr3su3Orx0 Hi Yana, What are your thoughts on how much/what of your sexual history you should divulge to your current partner(s)? I always ask [...]