How Do I Get Better At Poly?
Hi Yana, I heard you on Dawn Serra’s podcast Sex Gets Real and really appreciated what you had to say about personal boundaries in new [...]
Staying Sexy in Our 60s
Hi Yana, I am a 66-year-old man who is in love, and in a new relationship, with a very sexually active 60-year-old woman. I have [...]
My Man’s Got Herpes; Now What?
Hi Yana, I’ve recently begun a relationship with a man who has herpes. It’s unclear if it’s HSV-1 or -2 or both. He has scheduled [...]
My BF Is About to Leave Me; What Do I Do?
Hi Yana! My boyfriend and I are approaching our four year anniversary. He recently called me and asked if he could vent to me about [...]
Let’s Do Munch!
Hey Yana, I am totally new to BDSM [bondage and discipline/sadism and maso- chism]. Someone told me about a “munch” happening locally tomorrow night. They [...]
Help! I’ve Depo Shot my Libido in the Foot
Hi Yana, I’ve been on the Depo shot for two months now and I have no sex drive. No desire whatsoever. I Googled it and [...]
SOS! I’m Spaced Out During Sex
Yana, I need your expertise! I’m a 19-year-old guy in a hetero relationship. I was pleasuring my partner last night and I realized I stopped [...]
I’m Dating Three Women; Does That Make Me Polyamorous?
Hi Yana, I’m a 38 yo male currently involved with three women. One is a long distance relationship. We met at a concert and had [...]
I’ve Had Enough With Vaginismus
Content Note: Sexual trauma addressed in this week’s column. Hi Yana, I really appreciate your column and the work that you do. I have a really [...]
Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra: Listen to my interview!
This week I was interviewed by Dawn Serra for her awesome sexpertise podcast Sex Gets Real! Listen to it HERE. How does traditional consent education [...]