I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years. At the beginning of our relationship our sex life was amazing and over the years we’ve had our ups and downs. We’ve been through the good and the bad but we stuck it out with each other because we are in love with each other and plan to marry. 

But lately our sex life has been very non-existent and when we do have sex it’s me giving him oral and then him getting straight to it and then that’s it. Sometimes I climax, but not often. But he does all the time. He doesn’t perform oral on me or foreplay. 

I’ve talked to him about it many times but still nothing. I feel very ignored and unwanted by him. One time he even got MAD at me because I said I needed him to help me get to having an orgasm. He said I’m responsible for my own orgasms which, really hurt my feelings. I’m not sure what to do anymore.

Thanks for listening,