The V-Spot: Unplug to Buttplug
Hi Yana! My partner and I both really like butt plugs. We have the “Little Flirt” [a small, silicone butt plug made by Tantus] that [...]
5 Hours to a Blissful Partnership
Now that marriage equality has been won (!!), lesbian and queer couples are poised to pay attention to marital therapy’s age-old research which, was previously [...]
My Married Sex Life, For Better or Worse
https://youtu.be/hDVMSZrAcc4 Hi Yana, I’ve been with my husband for many years, and our sex life has never been ideal. We never seem to be [...]
Bi-curious at Bedtime
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVScqAd_oVs Dear Yana, While I don’t think labeling one’s sexuality is always necessary, I’ve always considered myself a heterosexual woman. I’ve been attracted to [...]
Don’t Wanna Be Straight Forever: My Bisexual Marriage Equality Freakout
The day national marriage equality passed I sobbed into my boyfriend’s shoulder in bed for half an hour. My shoulders heaved and my dog looked [...]
Hey baby, what’s your number?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLr3su3Orx0 Hi Yana, What are your thoughts on how much/what of your sexual history you should divulge to your current partner(s)? I always ask [...]
V-Spot Quickies: What are the chances?
Every now & then I get a question emailed to me that doesn't require an entire column to answer. These short-and-sweet Q&As will be published [...]
So, You Wanna Sleep with a Lesbian
The first time I slept with a girl it was awkward as hell. Sure, I had dabbled in the giggling French kisses of curious high [...]
The V-Spot: The Sex Talk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6fHLSq3bgR0 The V-Spot: The Sex Talk My dad gave me The Sex Talk one night during my freshman year in high school. We [...]
Lickety Split About Going Down: My boyfriend won’t lick my sundae
This week I was feeling split about what kind of advice to give to a reader about her boyfriend's hesitancy to go down on her. [...]