The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous?
The V-Spot: Anxious, Preoccupied, and Non-Monogamous? Dear Yana, I’m currently in a long-term monogamous relationship with my partner, and I am really interested in transitioning [...]
The V-Spot: Help! NRE Feels Bad to Me!
The V-Spot: Help! NRE Feels Bad to Me! Dear Yana, How do I stay chill when I’m interested in somebody new? Getting too excited (read: [...]
The V-Spot: Help! I Resent My Metamour!
The V-Spot: Help! I Resent My Metamour! Dear Yana, I’ve been in a non-monogamous relationship for over three years. Last year, one of my partners [...]
The V-Spot: Oops, I Had a Threesome
The V-Spot: Oops, I Had a Threesome Dear Yana, Hi Yana, I made a rookie mistake. I had a spur-of-the-moment, sober threesome with a couple [...]
The V-Spot: Am I the Other Woman?
The V-Spot: I’m The Other Woman Dear Yana, I want to avoid having an emotional (or sexual) affair without ending a friendship. I have a [...]
The V-Spot: How Do I Move Past Old Heartbreak?
The V-Spot: How Do I Move Past Old Heartbreak? Dear Yana, I’m a dude in my mid-thirties struggling to recover from a sort of recent [...]
The V-Spot: My Boyfriend is … Tied Up
Hi Yana, I’ve been dating a new guy for about four months. He’s honest and makes time for me. He’s also really exciting, and after [...]
The V-Spot: My Lover and My Bestie Are Dating
Hi there! I’m an early 30s, cis, brown, queer non-monogamous woman. My question is about a situation I find myself in with a lover and [...]
The V-Spot: Jealous in a New Poly Triangle
Hi Yana, I’m newly in a poly triangle with two dear friends. We’re all very open about how we view partnership and love in all [...]
Am I Mono or Poly?
Hi Yana, I always thought of myself as a monogamous person who sometimes dabbled with non-monogamy, but lately I’ve really been struggling to determine just [...]