The V-Spot: Kinky and Platonic?
The V-Spot: Kinky & Platonic? Dear Yana, Middle-aged straight guy here. I’m in a committed, monogamous relationship with a partner who I love very much. [...]
The V-Spot: Exploring Kink After Trauma
The V-Spot: Exploring Kink After Trauma Writer’s note: this column discusses sexual assault and trauma. Dear Yana, I’ve been seeing/having sex with this guy for [...]
The V-Spot: Teach My Nice Guy to Play Rough
Writer’s note: This column contains mention of rape/non-consensual sex. Hey Yana!! I’ve been dating the sweetest guy. Well, sweet in ways that he always helps [...]
The V-Spot: My Boyfriend is … Tied Up
Hi Yana, I’ve been dating a new guy for about four months. He’s honest and makes time for me. He’s also really exciting, and after [...]
The V-Spot: Watching Porn in Public with Bella Vendetta
It’s not what you’d expect — this whole watching porn in a room full of strangers with your friends thing. On Saturday night, in an [...]
Let’s Do Munch!
Hey Yana, I am totally new to BDSM [bondage and discipline/sadism and maso- chism]. Someone told me about a “munch” happening locally tomorrow night. They [...]
Upcoming Workshop! KINK! June 27th. Northampton, Ma.
KINK: a workshop about kinky sex A yanatallonhicks.com & vvatthefuck.tumblr.com collaboration Oh My Sensuality Shop, 122 Main St., Northampton Monday, June 27th 7:30pm $15 10% off [...]
Can you be a feminist and like rough sex?
Slapping, choking, spitting — if a woman gets off on a little consensual degradation in the bedroom, does that make her less of a feminist? [...]
Tying to Get Kinky
Hi Yana, My girlfriend and I are in college and we’ve done some like really, really basic BDSM: blindfolding, a little handcuffs, and some bondage [...]
Aftercare is Not a Grey Area
A housewife’s wet dream, Fifty Shades of Grey, hit the big screen this past month — and hit it hard. The popularity of the book [...]